The Family as the Domestic Church
by: Dr. Marcellino D'Ambrosio
America loves Pope Francis. And so, when it leaked out that a US visit was in the plans, Americans got excited.
Since becoming the Successor of Peter, Pope Francis has not often left Rome. The few times he has traveled reveal much about his priorities: he went to Brazil for the youth and to the Holy Land for the sake of Christian Unity. It appears that his primary reason for his trip to America will be to shine a spotlight on the family.
Up until the twentieth century, most official Church teaching had to do dogma such as the divinity of Christ. But over that past 100 years, pastoral teaching about the nature and purpose of the Christian family has been increasingly emphasized. Vatican II devoted much attention to the family. In 1979, the international Synod of Bishops made the family its main focus. In 1981, Pope John Paul II wrote Familiaris Consortio which can be considered a Catholic Manifesto on the family. The same Pope established an international conference every three years on the family, which, in Sept. 2015, will take place in Philadelphia. It is this meeting and therefore this topic which apparently is drawing the Holy Father to the US.
The secular media tends to focus on all the things the Catholic Church is against when it comes to the family: divorce, contraception, abortion, gay “marriage” to name a few. But Pope Francis’ style is to focus positively on what the Church is for when it comes to family life. He will not allow the media to turn this conference into a political rally. Rather, he’ll use it to draw attention to the noble beauty of Christian family life and its power to promote human dignity and happiness.
Sounding many themes of the Council and his predecessors he will most likely emphasize the following:
Marriage and fulfillment: Jesus presents us with a paradox: those intent on saving their lives will lose them; only those who deny themselves will really find themselves. Yes, marriage is about intimacy and mutual fulfilment of spouses, but that will come only when spouses die to themselves so as to serve each other and the children with which God may choose to bless them. The paschal mystery is played out in the everyday drama of family life—only sacrifice leads to glory.
The Domestic Church: a Christian family does not “go to church;” the Christian family is the Church, what Vatican II called “the domestic church.” And parents have a role which John Paul II, echoing Thomas Aquinas, says is similar to the role of a pastor of a parish. Of course the family must participate in the sacramental, social, and apostolic life of the parish. But faith, prayer, catechesis, charity, evangelization, all must take place first and foremost in the context of the home.
Religious Education: The catechetical programs that take place at parishes and Catholic schools are incredibly important. But Vatican II makes a bold statement – parents are the primary religious educators of their children. This must be the case since faith is like a language – it is impossible to master by attending classes once or twice a week. It is more caught than taught. It is a tradition that is handed on from one generation to another, but one that the new generation must live in and pick it up, as it were, through osmosis. The family is the first and best opportunity for this to take place. When it comes to more explicit learning, children are most teachable at the moment when they are curious and they have a question. These questions most often don’t occur at the moment of a religious education class, but often in the car on the way home from a friends’ house: “Mom, Johnny’s mom says we aren’t Christians because we worship statues. Is that true?” If parents aren’t ready to supply an answer, the child may conclude that there is no good answer. So parents need to be constantly growing in their faith so that they are able to fulfill their mission as religious educators.
The Family and Evangelization: Over the past few years, we’ve heard a lot about the New Evangelization. The family is not only the locus of the primary evangelization of its own children, but the Christian family is, according to some of the early church fathers, an icon of the Trinity. In the love that exists in a healthy Christian family, others who visit can see the face of God. A Christian home should be an oasis of refreshment for guests who are weary of the increasingly fragmentation and radical individualism of our modern culture. People who love God and love one another, who share meals together and actually listen and speak to one another, and do so joyfully is an attractive signpost pointing to Christ and his Church.
Papal trips are never a sure thing till they are officially announced, usually a few months before they take place. But if I know Pope Francis, he’ll be in Philadelphia in September 2015 and his words as well as his presence will speak volumes.
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Marcellino D’Ambrosio, aka “Dr. Italy,” is a theologian and father of five who writes from Texas. For more info on his resources on family life, visit www.dritaly.com.
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